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Thursday, May 30, 2013

Video's of Beckahm


This little 2 year old of ours never ceases to amaze me.  His observant personality has seriously paid off.  One night he just started praying (repeating the last word in each sentence I would say, which he does now every night), and he started repeating sentences in books I would read to him.  He also loves writing/drawing (his name in particular).  He will have me help him write his name while he spells it out loud.  This fellow lover of words (aka-moi) is more than proud of this little dude!!

Beck's Saying A Prayer
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Beck's Reading 
Beck's Walking in Mamas Shoes

Beck's Writing/Spelling His Name


Beckham Nearly Drowned


Well buddy, there was a guardian angel looking out for you today.  We were at the pool with some friends and I never tend to worry about you because you never get near the water (you haven't shown much interest, especially when it is cold).  20 minutes prior, my good friend Wendy, saw you nearing the edge and called you to my attention.  I told her I wasn't worried, that you never ventured in on your own before.  Later, we were talking to a friend of ours, who was blocking my site.  Wendy and I looked up to see a little boy who looked to be swimming in the pool, about 10ft from the edge.  We both, in glancing, thought he was Wendy's boy, Rhett (your little buddy).  About 20 seconds later our friend glanced out at the pool and said "is that little boy drowning?" It hit Wendy and I at the same time, we knew it was you.  I went into a state of shock (I was holding Amari at the time) and thank goodness Wendy reacted so quickly; she ran into the pool and pulled you out.  You had been kicking your arms and feet the best you could, the entire time, and it seemed you didn't swallow any water.  You were in a state of fear and shock and you cried a bit, looking at me with terror in your little eyes (broke my heart). We ended up estimating you had been in there probably 30 seconds to a minute.  I honestly don't know how you survived other than you must have remembered the few lessons we gave you when you were younger, and that a guardian angel was keeping you in his care.  I have never been so scared thinking I could have lost you in a moments notice.  

I was so apprehensive about you nearing the pool again, in fact I had nightmares about it a few days after.  But you were amazing at overcoming your fear as quickly as you did.  You let Daddy take you in the water (with some convincing) just ONE week after the incident.  We were SO proud of you, and SO grateful you made it through this near death experience. 












Lessons Given in Church

I am so grateful for the opportunity I have had the past two weeks to teach in church, first in Gospel Doctrine, and then in RS.  I believe the saying that the teacher always learns more than the students.  I needed to prepare these two lessons, how applicable they were to me.  The first was on cultivating our spiritual gifts (I have included below), and the lesson I gave in RS was on the atonement.  Although deeply personal, and hard for me to do, I was so grateful to share how the atonement has been working in the life of my family over the past year and a half.  I was able to share with these women a little bit of insight as to what happened with my father being excommunicated in his late 60's and how the atonement has been there to help him, as well as all of those affected by his choices.  As I shared this lesson the power of the atonement settled over me like never before; my testimony of the power of Christ's atonement to heal not only the sinner, but those affected by the sinner (for the atonement is ALL ENCOMPASSING if we allow it to be) became solidified in my mind and heart at that moment.  I will never forget how strong the spirit was in that room.

I am also so grateful for my amazing husband whom I felt prompted to invite into RS to share how the atonement changed his life.  I knew asking him to do this would be hard for him because speaking is not something he naturally loves doing (although he is so great at it).  The spirit was present in that room, touching so many of those sisters—tears streaming down their cheeks—as Mike read some of his letters he had written in jail and bore personal testimony of the power in Christ's atonement and its ability to heal any sin and any weakness.  I was so proud of him for being a light to those women and sharing a part of his story with them.  I can't tell you how many women came up to me at the end so grateful that we had both shared our stories, and shared similar stories relatable to those we shared.  During the lesson I was also prompted to pause and open it up to testimony's.  One woman bore her testimony of Christ's atonement having healed her severe depression when modern day phsyciatry and medication could not.  She said she rarely told her story but that she felt like she needed to do so.  We talked for a bit afterwards and I told her how important it was for us to not hide behind our stories but to share them because there are so many people out there who need to feel tied to somebody, to feel understood, to feel relatable.  And that I knew, women at large, struggle with depression and there were many in that room that needed to hear her testimony.  When she shared her story I thought of my Grandma Barber, who dealt—unbenounced to many—with depression most of her life, the story of which didn't come out till after her death when my mother was transcribing her journal entries.  "How much more relatable my perfect Grandmother would have been to me, had I known she struggled with depression," I told this lady, and encouraged her to not hide behind her story, but to be proud, and to share her testimony that Christ had healed her.

I am so grateful for my past and how I HAVE LET IT DEFINE ME.  Fear is something we choose, and I am not afraid to share what has made me who I am: a stronger, better, more refined daughter of God.


The Atonement


The Atonement
President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

Brightly beams our Father’s mercy
From his lighthouse evermore,
But to us he gives the keeping
Of the lights along the shore.

Let the lower lights be burning;
Send a gleam across the wave.
Some poor fainting, struggling seaman
You may rescue, you may save.

Dark the night of sin has settled;
Loud the angry billows roar.
Eager eyes are watching, longing,
For the lights along the shore.

Trim your feeble lamp, my brother;
Some poor sailor, tempest-tossed,
Trying now to make the harbor,
In the darkness may be lost.1

My message is directed to those among us who are suffering, burdened down with guilt and weakness and failure, sorrow, and despair.”

Q. Does this apply to any of you? Then this lesson is for YOU today.  I stress YOU because this lesson is individual and it comes from a talk entitled “The Atonement”, given by President Packer, during the Sunday morning general session in October 2012.

Pres. Packer shares this hymn I just read, a hymn “seldom sung in our hymn books,” but one of his favorites because he once experienced, first hand, the need to be guided by this lower light to safety when he was visiting Western Samoa.

This story provides a great metaphor of the atonement so we are going to go ahead and read it. 

HANDOUT #1

In 1971, I was assigned to stake conferences in Western Samoa, including the organization of a new stake on Upolu island. After interviews we chartered a small plane to Savai‘i island to hold a stake conference there. The plane landed on a grassy field at Faala and was to return the next afternoon to take us back to Upolu island.
The day we were to return from Savai‘i, it was raining. Knowing the plane could not land on the wet field, we drove to the west end of the island, where there was a runway of sorts atop a coral break. We waited until dark, but no plane arrived. Finally, we learned by radio that there was a storm, and the plane could not take off. We radioed back that we would come by boat. Someone was to meet us at Mulifanua.
As we pulled out of port on Savai‘i, the captain of the 40-foot (12 m) boat asked the mission president if he had a flashlight. Fortunately, he did and made a present of it to the captain. We made the 13-mile (21 km) crossing to Upolu island on very rough seas. None of us realized that a ferocious tropical storm had hit the island, and we were heading straight into it.
We arrived in the harbor at Mulifanua. There was one narrow passage we were to go through along the reef. A light on the hill above the beach and a second lower light marked the narrow passage. When a boat was maneuvered so that the two lights were one above the other, the boat would be lined up properly to pass through the dangerous rocks that lined the passage.
But that night there was only one light. Two elders were waiting on the landing to meet us, but the crossing took much longer than usual. After watching for hours for signs of our boat, the elders tired and fell asleep, neglecting to turn on the second light, the lower light. As a result, the passage through the reef was not clear.
HANDOUT #2 (story continued)
The captain maneuvered the boat as best he could toward the one upper light on shore while a crewman held the borrowed flashlight over the bow, searching for rocks ahead. We could hear the breakers crashing over the reef. When we were close enough to see them with the flashlight, the captain frantically shouted reverse and backed away to try again to locate the passage.
After many attempts, he knew it would be impossible to find the passage. All we could do was try to reach the harbor at Apia 40 miles (64 km) away. We were helpless against the ferocious power of the elements. I do not remember ever being where it was so dark.
We made no progress for the first hour, even though the engine was at full throttle. The boat would struggle up a mountainous wave and then pause in exhaustion at the top of the crest with the propellers out of the water. The vibration of the propellers would shake the boat almost to pieces before it slid down the other side.
We were lying spread-eagled on the cover of the cargo hold, holding on with our hands on one side and with our toes locked on the other to keep from being washed overboard. Brother Mark Littleford lost hold and was thrown against the low iron rail. His head was cut, but the rail kept him from being washed away.
Eventually, we moved ahead and near daylight finally pulled into the harbor at Apia. Boats were lashed to one another for safety. They were several deep at the pier. We crawled across them, trying not to disturb those sleeping on deck. We made our way to Pesega, dried our clothing, and headed for Vailuutai to organize the new stake.
I do not know who had been waiting for us at the beach at Mulifanua. I refused to let them tell me. But it is true that without that lower light, we all might have been lost.

Pres Packer goes on to say “I speak today to those who may be lost and are searching for that lower light to help guide them back.It was understood from the beginning that in mortality we would fall short of being perfect. It was not expected that we would live without transgressing one law or another.”
WHAT A RELIEF, we were never expected by our Father in Heaven to be perfect, for in the scriptures we know that
“the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord.”2


So it has been established that we aren’t expected to be perfect, thus an atonement was made to rectify our daily imperfections.  Let’s break down this BIG word: atonement.

BD Atonement:

“The word describes the setting “at one” of those who have been estranged and denotes the reconciliation of man to God.”

The verb "atone", from the adverbial phrase "at one" (M.E. at oon), at first meant to reconcile, or make "at one" with something; from this the word came to denote the action by which such reconciliation was effected, e.g. satisfaction for all offense or an injury.

I like how it is described in Catholic theology: the Atonement is the Satisfaction of Christ, whereby God and the world are reconciled or made to be at one. "For God indeed was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself" (2 Corinthians 5:19).So in our case the atonement means to be satisfied, to be reconciled, to be “at one” with God.

Finish reading BD to bullet point.

· The atonement is universally and individually applicable.
o     Universally the atonement is unconditional:

“All are covered unconditionally as pertaining to the Fall of Adam. Hence, all shall rise from the dead with immortal bodies because of Jesus’ Atonement. “For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive” (1 Cor. 15:22), and all little children are innocent at birth.”

So Adam fell and thus became a need for the atonement.  This atonement then bestowed a gift to all mankind (no matter their religion)—that of eternal life.

o     Individually, however, the atonement is conditional:

“The Atonement is conditional, however, so far as each person’s individual sins are concerned, and touches every one to the degree that he has faith in Jesus Christ, repents of his sins, and obeys the gospel.”
This is our also found in the 4th A of F:
We believe that the first principles and aordinances of the Gospel are: first, bFaith in the Lord Jesus Christ; second, cRepentance; third, dBaptism by eimmersion for the fremission of sins; fourth, Laying on of ghands for the hgift of the Holy Ghost.”
** Now, I wanted to make this distinction because sometimes it is easy to forget that the atonement is all-inclusive, even to those outside of our church.  We are all equally blessed with the gift of eternal life because of this supernal act.
Also, I think it is important for us to be reminded about how individual the atonement is.  Behind closed doors each of us sin, each of us experience our own gethsemane’s, and the ONLY person that knows every ounce of pain, every moment of discomfort or sorrow, is our Savior, Jesus Christ.  Jesus Christ knows us by name because experienced our pains individually.
EXAMPLE: I have asked my husband, Mike Moncur, to come and share with us how he knew the Lord knew him personally, and how the atonement changed his life.
Continuing on, and this may be a BIT of a tangent, but I felt the need “ to go there” when preparing this lesson.  It is also important for us to remember the Savior’s atonement is individually applicable in order for us to cease judging others. 
We may think we know someone’s past, we may think we know someone’s heart, but we don’t.  And that is why it is wise to leave judgment’s to the ALL KNOWING JUDGE, He who knows our weaknesses, the desires of our hearts, our capabilities, our talents—our Savior, Jesus Christ. 
HANDOUT # 3
President Joseph F. Smith taught: “Men cannot forgive their own sins; they cannot cleanse themselves from the consequences of their sins. Men can stop sinning and can do right in the future, and so far [as] their acts are acceptable before the Lord [become] worthy of consideration. But who shall repair the wrongs they have done to themselves and to others, which it seems impossible for them to repair themselves? By the atonement of Jesus Christ the sins of the repentant shall be washed away; though they be crimson they shall be made white as wool [see Isaiah 1:18]. This is the promise given to you.”8
*To me this knowledge is a great reminder and actually an added blessing in my life because I don’t HAVE to worry or wonder if this or that person has sincerely changed, if they have felt the atonement in their life.  I can allow the atonement to make them accountable for what they have done and allow them to work out what they need to with the Savior, while I do the same for my life.
EXAMPLE OF MY DAD
And now it is time for me to shed this skin and share a little of what’s been going on underneath.  I am a little frightened to share such a personal example, and I didn’t necessarily want to, but for some reason I felt the necessity to do so, so maybe there is someone in here that needs to hear it.
I am actually going to read my story because if I don’t I will probably get so flustered that I will just fumble through it.
I am actually pretty amazed that I was asked to give this lesson and furthermore that it was on the atonement, because over the past year and a half my family’s faith in the atonement has been tested and tried more than I think any one of my 6 siblings thought it could be.
We came from a “strong” LDS family.  I put “strong” in quotations because really our upbringing was based on hypocrisy (some of which we knew of, and a lot of which we didn’t). 
I will not go into any detail because it is probably the most fantastical, unbelievable story you’ve ever heard—straight out of a really messed up movie—in fact if any of you have ever seen the movie “Catch Me If You Can?” Well, that is only ½ the story my father lived.
In my home many things were hidden, and those secrets didn’t come out till much later in our lives—now living as adults with our own families.  Accounts of abuse, infidelity, embezzlement, fraud, problems with the government . . . the list goes on and on. 
These accounts were exposed by members of my own family, a few of which did so out of anger, wanting justice and revenge, and some did it out of the honest belief that they were helping my father clear up his misdeeds before passing on into the next life.
All of these events eventually led to my father’s excommunication.  When this happened a year ago, I was astounded to think that my dad—a true historical and religious mastermind, THE scriptorian of all scriptorians, the law giver, the patriarch in our home—was at the age of 65, being excommunicated.
I felt like my whole life had been a lie.  I felt betrayed, poisoned, upset, angered, bewildered, shocked . . . so many feelings that were not manageable, nor capable of getting rid of on my own.
And here is the point of me deciding to share this: THE ONLY PERSON that could manage these emotions, that could give me some sort of peaceful remedy, was my Savior. 
And you know what I came to realize? He was not only there to remedy my pain, but my fathers as well.  The Savior’s atonement was to provide retribution to the sinner AND the persons affected by the sins of that sinner.  
So here we all were, under one umbrella, so many of us affected by one mans choices, yet ALL of us, even the sinner, was in need of ONE Healer. 
Now, some members in my family decided to turn to Christ to heal their pain, while others grew further distant and bitter.
Those of us who turned to Christ learned to see my dad not as this “untouchable father”, rather a common sinner amongst us, a man prone to weakness, just like all of us.  And because of this, it has been easier for us to accept his Stake Presidents recommendation that he be re-baptized.  While those who have been hardened by the situation expressed complete disdain over how quickly he went through the repentance process.
The problem with the latter is that they are only seeing things with their natural eyes.  It is impossible for any of us to know the exchanges he’s made with his priesthood leaders, the prayers he has had with the Lord behind closed doors, the change he has felt and experienced inside of his own heart.  Who are we—as fellow sinners (yes maybe to a much lesser degree)— to judge whether or not the atonement has worked in his life?
I want to read an entry my husband wrote in jail that is in direct correlation with this thought:
*READ PRIDE ENTRY
For as Pres. Packer said:
“Throughout your life there may be times when you have gone places you never should have gone and done things you never should have done. If you will turn away from sin, you will be able one day to know the peace that comes from following the pathway of complete repentance.
No matter what our transgressions have been, no matter how much our actions may have hurt others, that guilt can all be wiped out. To me, perhaps the most beautiful phrase in all scripture is when the Lord said, “Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.”11
And here is the clause, even if my father did all of this just to be seen of men, and didn’t truly repent, that’s his issue with the Savior, not mine.  For remember we are all to have an INDIVIDUAL relationship with Christ. Even though my dad is my dad, he is Heavenly Father’s son first; even though Mike is my husband, he is Heavenly Father’s son first; even though Beckahm is my child, he is Heavenly Father’s son first. Each of us are 1st members of Christ before we are members of this mortal family.

And that is why once we have experienced the atonement in our lives, we must then become that lower light guiding those we love and care for back to Christ. Reading that verse from that hymn once again:



Let the lower lights be burning;
Send a gleam across the wave.
Some poor fainting, struggling seaman
You may rescue, you may save.

Pres. Packer reiterates this by saying:

HANDOUT #4

“That is the promise of the gospel of Jesus Christ and the Atonement: to take anyone who comes, anyone who will join, and put them through an experience so that at the end of their life, they can go through the veil having repented of their sins and having been washed clean through the blood of Christ.12
That is what Latter-day Saints do around the world. That is the Light we offer to those who are in darkness and have lost their way. Wherever our members and missionaries may go, our message is one of faith and hope in the Savior Jesus Christ.”
CONCULSION
When we have sinned, when we are discouraged, the atonement is there to provide us with peace and to give us hope.
“President Joseph Fielding Smith wrote the lyrics to the hymn “Does the Journey Seem Long?” This hymn contains encouragement and a promise to those who seek to follow the teachings of the Savior:
Does the journey seem long,
The path rugged and steep?
Are there briars and thorns on the way?
Do sharp stones cut your feet
As you struggle to rise
To the heights thru the heat of the day?
Is your heart faint and sad,
Your soul weary within,
As you toil ’neath your burden of care?

Does the load heavy seem
You are forced now to lift?
Is there no one your burden to share?
Let your heart be not faint
Now the journey’s begun;
There is One who still beckons to you.
So look upward in joy
And take hold of his hand;
He will lead you to heights that are new—
A land holy and pure,
Where all trouble doth end,
And your life shall be free from all sin,
Where no tears shall be shed,
For no sorrows remain.
Take his hand and with him enter in.13
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Seek Ye Earnestly The Best Gifts . . .


Lesson 15: “Seek Ye Earnestly the Best Gifts”

I am excited about this lesson because it is a good tie in to last weeks lesson on the law of consecration. Last week we discussed the physical ways to live this eternal law, and today we are going to tap into some of the spiritual ways we can live it.

The lesson is entitled “Seek Ye Earnestly the Best Gifts”, but in preparing it, I would like it to read: “Seek Ye Earnestly Your Best gifts, and The Best Gifts of Others For We Are All One Body”.

Just to preface, I know we are studying out of the D&C and I promise to utilize those amazing scriptures; however, ever since I completed my senior literary course—The Bible as Literature—I have a great affinity for the Bible.  And as I was preparing this lesson, I was so pleased to see it working in direct correlation with the BOM and The Pearl of Great Price.

*So get ready to get in the trenches with Paul today as we read, verbatim, his message to the Corinthians.

*HANDOUT BIBLES

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GARDEN
Before we get into the meat of this lesson we are going to start off with an anaology of a garden, which will give us the “thesis” for the lesson today.

Imagine that you are planting a garden.
Q. What seeds would you plant?

Even though our gardens would be different they would all be beautiful and useful.

Similarly we may receive different gifts of the spirit but all of these gifts are useful for building up the kingdom of God.

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DEFINE GIFTS
Q. Keeping with the garden analogy, who can plant a garden (I am not asking who has the know-how, rather who has the ability to plant one)? EVERYONE


Q. Who can receive gifts of the spirit?
*(READ D&C 46:3-6 if anyone asks if only the faithful can receive spiritual gifts)  
God gives at least one of these gifts to every faithful member of the Church who has received the gift of the Holy Ghost. people who have not received the gift of the Holy Ghost may still be blessed with unique abilities to lift and strengthen others” (Lesson Manual)
3 Nevertheless ye are commanded never to acast any one out from your public bmeetings, which are held before the world.
 4 Ye are also commanded not to cast any one who belongeth to the church out of your sacrament meetings; nevertheless, if any have trespassed, let him anot bpartake until he makes reconciliation.
 5 And again I say unto you, ye shall not cast any out of your sacrament meetings who are earnestly aseeking the kingdom—I speak this concerning those who are not of the church.
 6 And again I say unto you, concerning your aconfirmation meetings, that if there be any that are not of the church, that are earnestly seeking after the kingdom, ye shall not cast them out.

“Gifts of the Spirit are spiritual blessings or abilities that are given through the Holy Ghost. These gifts were taken from the earth during the Great Apostasy, but God restored them in the early days of this dispensation.” (Lesson Manual)

So just as each of us had different seeds we planted in our garden, so do each of us have different spiritual gifts.

We are going to define some of these gifts found in D&C 46. We will go verse-by-verse and whomever reads the scripture if you could share what that gift is.  Also any examples you may have of any of these gifts please feel free to share.

.                 a. D&C 46:13. (Knowledge “given by the Holy Ghost … that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and that he was crucified for the sins of the world.”)
.                 b. D&C 46:14. (Belief in others’ testimonies of the Savior.) I have a testimony that this is just as important a gift as that of bearing testimony.  In my patriarchal blessing it tells me to “bear my testimony often that others may hear and know and glorify my Father in Heaven.” What a gift it is to hear something and automatically recognize it as truth
.                 c. D&C 46:15. (Knowledge of “the differences of administration.”) Elder Bruce R. McConkie of the Quorum of the Twelve said that this gift is “used in administering and regulating the church” (A New Witness for the Articles of Faith [1985], 278).
.                 d. D&C 46:16. (Discernment “to know the diversities of operations, whether they be of God.” This gift helps us discern whether a teaching or influence comes from God or from some other source.)
.                 e. D&C 46:17–18. (Wisdom and knowledge.)
.                 f. D&C 46:19. (Faith to be healed.)
.                 g. D&C 46:20. (Faith to heal.) I love this because it exemplifies the gift of the priesthood holder in administering a blessing (faith to heal) AND the gift of the receiver of that blessing (the faith to be healed)—each work TOETHER to call upon Gods power
.                 h. D&C 46:21. (The working of miracles.)
.                 i. D&C 46:22. (Prophecy.)
.                 j. D&C 46:23. (Discerning of spirits.)
.                 k. D&C 46:24. (Speaking in tongues.) I have a testimony that sometimes temporary gifts are bestowed upon us as a sign of Gods tender mercy.  I had to learn Swedish under less than pleasing circumstances and later when I went back to school to finish my degree I had to take a language course to complete my education and since foreign language isn’t  my strength I decided to take Swedish (having had a basic knowledge of it).  And I can tell you the Lord helped me learn to speak it for four years just so I could get my degree.   * So sometimes gifts are temporary, so don’t think because you don’t possess that gift now you never will.
.                 l. D&C 46:25. (Interpretation of tongues.)

*It just hit me, isn’t it so interesting how these gifts are two-fold (the gift to  bear testimony/the gift to believe in a testimony; the gift to heal/the gift to have the faith to be healed; the gift to speak tongues/the gift to understand) , there is a give and take, yet no one gift is more important than the other, each are essential.

Q. There are many other gifts besides the ones mentioned here.  What are a few?

----EXAMPLE by RYAN LYMAN of a spiritual gift his wife possesses-----
#1 HANDOUT: Elder Marvin J. Ashton of the Quorum of the Twelve said some “less-conspicuous gifts” include “the gift of asking; the gift of listening; the gift of hearing and using a still, small voice; … the gift of avoiding contention; the gift of being agreeable; … the gift of seeking that which is righteous; the gift of not passing judgment; the gift of looking to God for guidance; the gift of being a disciple; the gift of caring for others; the gift of being able to ponder; the gift of offering prayer; the gift of bearing a mighty testimony; and the gift of receiving the Holy Ghost” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1987, 23; or Ensign, Nov. 1987, 20).

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WHY DO WE HAVE GIFTS
Q. Why do we plant a garden? Benefits us

Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of the Twelve taught that gifts of the Spirit “can lead us to God. They can shield us from the power of the adversary. They can compensate for our inadequacies and repair our imperfections” (“Spiritual Gifts,” Ensign, Sept. 1986, 72).

*Pretty amazing that our own talents can override and/or compensate for our own imperfections.  No wonder Satan wants us to hide our talents

Q. Do others benefit from our garden? Sure, if we share.  Each of us benefit from farmers and the fruits and vegetables they harvest each year.

#2 HANDOUT: Elder Orson Pratt of the Quorum of the Twelve said, “Spiritual gifts are distributed among the members of the Church, according to their faithfulness, circumstances, natural abilities, duties, and callings; that the whole may be properly instructed, confirmed, perfected, and saved” (Masterful Discourses and Writings of Orson Pratt, comp. N. B. Lundwall [1953], 571).

——EXAMPLE  of how someone else’s spiritual gift has blessed her life——

So just as a garden benefits us individually, and as a whole, so do our spiritual gifts.  And this is where I want to pause and spend some time.

Q. Who is afraid to use their spiritual gifts? Why? (seen as being prideful, etc,)

Q. Who has ever been envious of another’s gift?  Why? (famine mentality: if I don’t possess it I will be empty or without).

It is hard living in a world where people are seeking to attain as much as they can to enable them to rise in status above another.  However, just as we learned about the law of consecration last week, we need to share and further utilize each others gifts so we call all be lifted to ONE EQUAL status, for we are all of THE SAME status in Gods eyes—we are all his sons and daughters. 

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PAULS SERMON: ONE BODY

Now, I want to delve into this wonderful sermon Paul gives to the Corinthians.  Let’s pull out our bibles. One of you pull out your BOM.

Read Moroni 10:8, 17. ------------Read 1 Cor 12:4-6----------Paul proceeds to define a few of the gifts we read in D&C

1 Cor 12:12 (and this is the ever famous analogy of the body).
*The “members’=toes, feet, hands, arms, etc. ALL are members of this body we have

17—in other words each part is necessary to the whole

19—each member (or body part) isn’t as useful without the other. you can’t just be a toe, or a finger . . . you are the eye, I am the ear, this person is the hand . . . all together we make ONE BODY

20—the NEED of every SINGLE one of us—this can tie into missionary work: all of us

23—How many in here think “I don’t really need my belly button?” “We don’t really need you to complete the whole?” Here he is saying EVERY PART—again I stress PERSON is vital!

24—In other words I give to you because you lack something; you give to me because I lack something, and TOGETHER we are TEMPERED..

*I have always been fascinated with the origin of words so I want to pause and define tempered for a quick moment.  Listen to some of these definitions:

Definition of TEMPER
1
: to dilute, qualify, or soften by the addition or influence of something else : moderate <temper justice with mercy>
3
: to bring to a suitable state by mixing in or adding a usually liquid ingredient: as
a : to mix (clay) with water or a modifier (as grog) and knead to a uniform texture
5
: to make stronger and more resilient through hardship : toughen tempered
in battle>
6
a : to put in tune with something : attune

#3 HANDOUT:  Heat treatment of steel in a school workshop is normally a two stage process (KEY WORD: TWO). For example, if a high carbon steel or silver steel screw driver blade has been manufactured, at some point it will have to be ‘’hardened’ (SYNONYM: STRENGTHENED) to prevent it wearing down when used. On the other hand it will have to be ‘tempered’. This second heating process reduces the hardness a little but toughens the steel. It also significantly reduces the brittleness of the steel so that it does not break easily. The whole process is called ‘hardening and tempering’. (SO IN ORDER FOR STEEL TO BECOME WHAT IT IS IT HAS TO GO THROUGH A TWO STEP PROCESS) LET’S RE-READ THAT VERSE: 1 Cor 12:24.
http://www.technologystudent.com/equip1/heat1.htm

READ 1 Cor 12:25-27

25: don’t you think that if we truly believed that we were extremely beneficial to one another we would care for each other deeply because we know that I am not whole without you and you are not whole without me, just as all of us are not whole without CHRIST.

26—NO ENVY this is no longer the “I mentality.”
Quickly turn to 13:11, I really love this scripture because it is so applicable to me now having kids—Children envy others things and are possessive of what they have.  But guess what, we are no longer children, we are adults, and we need to act like adults by sharing our gifts as well as being grateful for the gifts others have been blessed with). 

So going back to verse 26: (READ) so clap, jump up and down when your fellowman is successful, and instead of elevating yourself through the weakness of another, reach down to pick someone up. WHY? READ

27—together our parts are perfected and ultimately we become members of Christ!

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CULTIVATING OUR GIFTS
We know we need to cultivate a garden so we can harvest good fruit.
Q. How can we cultivate the gifts we have been given?
§       Pray: HANDOUT#4 President George Q. Cannon taught: “If any of us are imperfect, it is our duty to pray for the gift that will make us perfect. Have I imperfections? I am full of them. What is my duty? To pray to God to give me the gifts that will correct these imperfections. If I am an angry man, it is my duty to pray for charity, which suffereth long and is kind. Am I an envious man? It is my duty to seek for charity, which envieth not. So with all the gifts of the Gospel. They are intended for this purpose. No man ought to say, ‘Oh, I cannot help this; it is my nature.’ He is not justified in it, for the reason that God has promised to give strength to correct these things, and to give gifts that will eradicate them” (Millennial Star, 23 Apr. 1894, 260).

§       Act: The Prophet Joseph Smith taught that many gifts of the Spirit, such as wisdom or the gift to heal, are not evident until they are needed (my Swedish example). He said that “it would require time and circumstances to call these gifts into operation” (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, sel. Joseph Fielding Smith [1976], 246).

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CONCLUSION
Read D&C 46:10-12
10 And again, verily I say unto you, I would that ye should always remember, and always retain in your aminds what those bgifts are, that are given unto the church.
 11 For all have not every agift given unto them; for there are many gifts, and to every man is given a gift by the Spirit of God.
 12 To some is given one, and to some is given another, that all may be profited thereby.

TESTIFY:
1)   I testify of the power of our patriarchal blessings brothers and sisters—that contained therein are spiritual gifts the Lord has bestowed upon us.  In preparing for this lesson I re-read mine and underlined all of the gifts the Lord has given me.  I encourage you to go home and do the same.
2)   I also encourage you to get a priesthood blessing.  My patriarchal blessing ends by saying: “I bless you to this end by the power of the priesthood which I hold and in the name of the Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Amen.” I was ONLY able to know of these gifts and blessings I have been given through a priesthood holder. 

I honestly believe the priesthood isn’t used enough; it is often left to be used in times of sickness—when we are on our death bead persae—but it NEEDS to be used on a weekly basis to help us with the smallest to the largest obstacles we face in our daily lives; from the simple ability to get through one more week—SANELY—to helping us overcome fears and/or weaknesses. 

For as we learned in this lesson we only overcome our imperfections by utilizing our strengths, or our gifts.  And the Lord is waiting to reveal those to you and me, and further empower us with them through a member of his priesthood.